The fact of the matter is I think Dwight is BSing more than we know. Otis may have helped him, but the fact of the matter is, I don't see Stan and Otis bowing down to his every wish, nor should they. If he thinks someone else is going to just bow down to everything he wants, they've got something else coming. Did they take into consideration his preferences? Absolutely.
Truly, I think this all comes down to the abrupt trades last year that brought in Hedo and Arenas and traded away one of his best friends and mentors, Rashard Lewis.